Which version of you is real?

We often talk about “acting” in different situations, but I prefer to think of it as “shining” a 🔦- highlighting different aspects of us in different circumstances. We can be authentic, true to our values, and adapt ourselves, all at the same time. For example: shifting tone in a conversation, adjusting energy, or balancing confidence with humility. Sometimes we need to be direct and decisive, other times warm and empathetic. We can be curious and listen, take a back seat, or step forward and lead. It's still us - even if we are "acting".

Experiencing Olafur Eliasson’s interactive art at Auckland Art Gallery Toi o Tāmaki recently highlighted this for me – literally!  Light shining from different angles revealing multiple variations of the same thing - all of them were the real. All of them were me!

In every situation we have a choice - which parts of us need to shine🔦 !